So little updates! I apologize, but we have been INSANELY busy. Unpacking, cuddling, putting things away, cuddling, talking, cuddling, sleeping while cuddling. He's at work and I miss cuddling :(. Before I delve into posts about our day-to-day lives I figured I would update on how the "move" actually went. I'll pick up where I left off....flat tire #2. My second flat tire threatened to push things back even further. I'll admit I panicked about it, became quickly overwhelmed, and just sort of decided things just weren't happening any time soon. To make matters slightly worse, Brandon was at a meeting at work and not available to reply to my crazy texts! I was on my own, save for my mom, who gave me the encouragement I needed to change that tire myself and get the hell out of Chicago before all 4 of my tires mysteriously ended up flat. So, with new determination, I set out to change that GD tire!
One problem: I wasn't exactly dressed for tire changing. Sandals and yoga pants do not scream "hard work".
But with a little bit of standing on tire irons, and kicking tire irons and screaming at lug-nuts, I totally got that tire changed!
And the end result was a donut tire, and a major personal victory over my own anxiety. I was very proud of myself. Who was I not proud of? The 7 or 8 grown men who walked by me in the parking lot of my old apartment complex, so essentially my neighbors, who didn't take the time to ask if I needed any help. If I saw me, I'd offer to help! And I'm not even talking about the people who were leaving, but people arriving, clearly about to go chill in their apartment! Oh well, it gave me a little independence, but I still find it despicable. Good riddance Chicago.
I stayed with my family for a week, and it was great. There was drama, but there is always drama. Had a nice day out with Shelby and Layne, and that is always fun. I left Saturday morning at 7am and arrived Sunday morning at 12am. That was 17 hours of driving. Although, an hour and a half or so was sitting, resting my eyes, etc. It was not fun, to say the least. But I refused to stop halfway and spend the night. I wanted to BE there. My head hurt, my legs and booty hurt, my eyes hurt and my hands hurt, but I totally did it! All 876 miles with minimal stops and breaks. And I didn't get lost in Dallas, either! I'll post some *taken hastily from my cellphone as I drove quickly by* pictures.
FIRST! Congrats to my old car Clancy for rolling over 100,000 miles. Good job old girl! It should also be noted that I had to fill my car up twice for the whole trip. Yay Clancy!
Next is a cool picture that I always love to see live when I am driving south of where I am from: the Piasa bird. The piasa bird is a bird the native americans in the region painted on the side of a bluff, suuuuper high up. I'll post my picture, but if you follow this link you can see a better picture and read about the legend of the Piasa Bird!
The first state I crossed into was Missouri. Missouri is just like Illinois, except you can drive 70 on the interstate and 60 on some of the highways. As you can see in the picture, Missouri was nice and sunny. It was the longest single stretch of highway I drove the entire time at about 380 miles. It was, by far, the most boring part of the drive but also the easiest. The weather permitted me to roll down the windows, which kept me from getting car sick. Yay Missouri! Unfortunately, I was also witness to a pretty bad accident. The accident occurred in the other lanes traveling the opposite direction, so it did not interrupt my trip. It wasn't at all fun to witness. I tried to snap a quick pictures as I drove by, horrendous I know, but hopefully any victims in this accident were recovered and well. The only picture I could snap was a fairly macro shot of the underside of one of the tractor trailers there were overturned in the accident.
Our next state is Okkkkkkklahoma! Oklahoma is weird. And full of casinos. BUT on the main highway you can drive 75! Holy moly! Except, of course, you cannot drive into the smoke. There are signs posted allll over the highway warning you NOT to drive into the smoke. I had two theories on why this might be. Theory 1: Crop and field fires causing smoke to settle on roads. Smoke causes low visibility and accidents so hey don't drive in it. Theory 2: The native americans smoke out the roads so you'll stop when you can't see. They they AMBUSH your car and scalp you. Turns out: theory 1 is correct. So much for THAT, eh? Anyhow, Oklahoma, despite its fast driving allowances, was the shittiest state I drove through. Seriously, Oklahoma? Who puts 37,000 small towns IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR MAJOR HIGHWAYS?! I can't tell you how fun it is to go 75 then 35 then 75 then 35 in the span of a half an hour! I was also super frustrated already, having driven all day by the time I got there, BUT, there was relief in sight! Good Ole:
That's right folks! Texas. And as you can see from this poor quality photo, the weather in Texas was worse than the weather in Missouri. Good one Texas, good one. There goes your reputation! Being bested my MISSOURI?! Shameful, truly shameful. There will be a re-match in December. We will see who wins :)
The rest of the drive was stressful. I was tired, and it was pouring down rain and the roads were under construction. All I can say is thank GOODNESS for GPS. I love that thing, even if it did take me the weirdest way through Oklahoma possible.
I made it, with some effort, and I don't regret it. Things have been smooth thus far, if a little awkward. I am still worried about how this will turn out. I have very high hopes though. For now, I will concentrate on getting things settled here, making life easy for Brandon, and finding myself a job.
As a side note, I do have to say that I really admire Brandon's inner strength. He's been going through a lot of changes lately and he's taking it very well. Or at least, visibly taking things very well. A lot of changes in his life...moving to a new apartment, living with his girlfriend, changing things at work. I just hope I can make things easier on him. If I can't, there is always cupcakes and chicken fettuccine alfredo!
Wish us luck,
Courtney